How to Save Your Broken Relationship – By Doing Exactly What Your Ex Is Doing!

The most important thing to keep in mind when trying to get your ex back/saving your relationship is this: You used to be a challenge to your ex. Whether or not you were the one in the relationship with the highest maintenance or not doesn’t matter – everyone who is in a relationship are a challenge at some level, and it is this challenge that creates the sparks necessary to keep a relationship going.

There can be no attraction where there is no friction, and if you’re like most of us, the furthest thing from your mind right now is to try to create friction between you and your ex! As a matter of fact, you’re probably playing it very safe at the present. And therein lies the problem.

Why? Because that makes you a non-challenge to your ex. That is bad because your ex partner is very well aware that if they ask you to come back, you’ll be back in a second. For all effective purposes, you are wrapped around their finger – you have no hand in it. Yet.

Your job is to become a challenge again, by showing your ex that she/he is no more in charge over the destiny of your relationship than when you were together.

Maybe you’ve bought her/him flowers. Or gifts. Or perhaps you have been acting uncharacteristically nice, to make your ex “see what they are missing”.

The signal you’re sending out is a little something like “I’m completely lost without you”. The signal your ex is picking up is more like “I’m completely lost – period”. As you know, no one but no one is attracted to that. You are basically telling your ex that you have low value.

You will only regain their respect when you stop giving away your power. The great news is that you can do that by not communicating directly with him/her – you make yourself exclusive. Think about it – this is precisely what your ex is doing, and I’m sure you’ve noticed the effect it has on you.

Do not call your ex, don’t Facebook, don’t text, don’t e-mail or anything else. If he/she tries to get in touch with you, for now, respond with silence. If you are contacted again and asked why you haven’t responded, tell him/her that you’re taking some time to work on yourself. If she/he pushes the issue, say that you’d rather not talk about it right now. It will drive them nuts. Of course, don’t forget to politely answer any other questions they have – you do not want to come off rude or insensitive.

Be sure to stick to your no communication rule right now. Trying to be his/her friend right now is the quickest way to ruin any chances you have of reconciliation. Doing this will actually make your ex feel good about breaking up, as it sends the signal that “well, they still want to be friends, so this must have been the right decision.”

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Get Your Ex Back Fast – By Doing Exactly What Your Ex is Doing

One of the most important things to remember in order to get your ex back fast is this: You used to be a challenge to your ex. Whether you were the dominant/demanding one in the relationship or not, the fact remains that you were a challenge (everyone is), and this made your partner irresistibly attracted to you.

You see, without friction, there can be no attraction, and if you are like most people, the last thing on your mind right now is to create any kind of friction. To the contrary, you’re probably playing it really safe right now.

This makes you a zero challenge for your ex. This is not good, because your ex knows that you’ll be back in a second if they ask you to – you’re basically wrapped around your ex’s finger.

You need to start becoming a challenge again, by demonstrating that your ex has no more power and control over you than when you were together. Perhaps you’ve bought your ex gifts, or flowers. Maybe you’ve been acting unusually nice, to have her/him see “what they’re missing”.

…all of which sends one gigantic signal to your ex, which sounds a little something like: “I’m worthless/hopeless/lost without you”. However, the only signal your ex is picking up is “I’m worthless and lost”, and NO ONE is attracted to that. You’re telling him/her that you have a low value.

You will not regain this respect until you refuse to give any more of your power away to your ex. The good news is that you can do this by simply not directly communicating with her – make yourself exclusive. After all, this is exactly what your ex is doing, and notice the effect it’s having on you.

Don’t see her, call her, text her, comment on her Facebook page, e-mail her or anything else. And if she contacts you, respond with silence. If she contacts you again to ask why you haven’t responded, tell her that “sorry, you’ve been busy”. Then respond very politely to any questions she may have.

Make sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Being her friend right now is a slippery slope, as it will actually make her feel better about the breakup, while remaining power over you. Don’t do it.

All this being said, be sure to keep your ex “locked in to you” with any shared belongings. Any shared belongings (at both your ex’s and your place) should be kept like that. Same thing goes with any owed monies between the two of you. However, if you’ve already given back each other’s things, don’t panic.

For the next few weeks, fully embrace and enjoy your single status. Have fun, enjoy life and be the person your ex fell in love with in the first place. Do this, and you’ve taken the first step towards getting your ex back fast.